I love the idea of spring break with my three rambunctious kiddos. I dream of parks and outside time soaking in the sunshine.
There’s just one problem – I usually still need to work. Spring break happens for my kids, not necessarily for me.
Inevitably, this leads to an epic internal battle between my mom guilt and my feeling of responsibility as a business owner. On the one hand, I want to savor these sweet opportunities with my family. On the other, my to-do list feels like a fifty-pound weight. And I can’t let myself drown.
Do you ever feel this way too? (It’s been an all too constant feeling since having my third child and starting my business.)
To ease this battle, I’ve slowly been making changes – both in what I do, and my expectations around “perfect parenting.” Hint: there’s no such thing.
Fuss Free Family Time
One of the big changes I’ve made is to add fun ways to connect with my kids without the fuss. No more elaborate sensory bins or structured art projects. There’s just no time for that.
If you’re in the same boat, here’s what we used over spring break. We ALL loved these games and they brought us closer. Plus, they were easy to look up on my phone! No setup or clean up required for a busy mom.
1. Family Feud
This family feud game for kids was the first thing we tried and it was a massive hit! We stopped at a coffee shop before heading to a park and needed something to talk about. The kids got so into guessing what they thought the top answers would be that we forgot about the time all together.
2. This or That Questions
Give kids two options to pick from (they can be logical or totally outrageous) and see what they pick! Not only do you learn a lot about other people, but it sparked incredibly interesting conversation.
3. Kids Trivia
“Did you know…” is a sentence that almost every kid loves to hear.
And when I pulled out the trivia questions, my children couldn’t get enough. Honestly, they were engaged for hours, and even went on to look up trivia that could stump me. Plus, the cool part about fun facts is that you can get them about anything – animals, Disney, shows, or Star Wars.
4. What If Questions
Thinking up hypothetical questions is a hilarious way to pass the time. And these questions worked really well during a car ride when we needed a break from screens. Here are fun examples:
What if you were stranded on an island?
What if you could create a new law?
What if you owned your own spaceship?
What if you had to choose between your birthday and Christmas?
5. Who’s Most Likely To
Finally, this game brought lots of laughs! My son was voted “most likely to put an empty box back in the pantry” and I was voted “most likely to lose something.” We all have our talents!
Here are a few more examples for this game:
Who’s most likely to dance wildly to music?
Who’s most likely to want to climb a mountain?
Who is more likely to have ten dirty cups in their bedroom?
If you need a quick family night activity or a way to pass the time on a rainy day, these activities will do it!
Plus, if you’re a busy or working parent they can all be done with no prep or planning. Because, seriously, don’t we all have enough to think about? Why not love on our kids and spend time with our family with fewer expectations and work. Let’s do it!
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The Points of Light Civic Circle Offers Real Ways You Can Change the World
Sixty-six percent of Americans don’t believe they can make a big impact in the world.
That figure is according to Points of Light’s research on civic engagement. But what if I told you there are actually many ways to drive change?
Today’s political climate can feel divided or even stagnant, but the truth is, you really can make things better, starting with your own community, one act of kindness at a time. And those aren’t just words. I’m here to share real, practical ways for you to make a difference.
The Points of Light Civic Circle helps people connect to opportunities and understand that doing good comes in many forms. It is a framework that represents your power to lead, lend support and take action for causes you care about and live your best civic life.
The Civic Circle provides actionable examples of all the ways you can change your community to reflect the world you want to see around you. In fact, you’re probably doing some of these things already. Are you helping a neighbor by picking up groceries or chaperoning on your child’s class field trip? You’re volunteering. Did you vote in the last election or help others get to the polls so they could vote? Those acts of civic duty illustrate the “vote” element. When you buy a product, do you choose to support companies that reflect your values or advance a social cause? That’s called “purchase power.” There are nine elements of the Civic Circle, and countless ways to bring each one to life.
This blog is the first in a five-part series that will help you find real and manageable ways to activate the Civic Circle through apps, documentaries, podcasts and books.
We also offer other resources to help you connect with all the ways you can become empowered to be the change you want to see in the world. Check out our videos that provide an in-depth look at each element of the Civic Circle. And don’t miss Civic Life Today, our digital magazine series. Each issue takes a deep dive and provides materials, ideas and inspiration so that you can become civically engaged. Get started today, and launch your own civic engagement journey with these tools.
Are you an Amateur or a Pro? 30 Differences to Help You Decide…
My client, Sebastian, thinks he’s behind on “life”.
He thinks he missed the memo the rest of us received on how to live a happy life.
I know better.
Sebastian hasn’t fallen behind and there is no such memo.
We’re all just trying to figure it out.
Unless we’re not. And there are a lot of people who simply are not trying to figure it out.
My friend and Professional Coach, Elaine Taylor-Klaus, calls them Status quo-ers — as opposed to Growers.
Anyone who makes a serious commitment to working with a Professional Coach is by definition a “Grower” and Sebastian is no exception.
Growers want to know, feel and live more. They push every boundary and sometimes fall off cliffs. They say “yes” to way too many things and often feel overwhelmed and over committed. They have a congenital distaste of the status quo and will sabotage any situation if it feels like “settling” to them. They’re insatiable and often don’t know what exactly will assuage their hunger.
Growers often appear to the world as troubled, frustrated and critical.
Inside they feel unfulfilled and misunderstood.
The truth is that they can’t help but be driven by Oscar Wilde’s belief that,
Growers will break every piece in the china shop when they find themselves just existing and not living as they see fit. And they suffer for it.
That is… until they turn pro and transform their life!
Steven Pressfield famously states in his book, Turning Pro,
Sebastian thinks he’s falling behind because he’s still living life as an amateur at 34.
To put the above into context, I didn’t turn pro till well into my 40’s!
Best move I ever made!
So what’s the difference between living life as an amateur vs. a pro?
Although there is no one size fits all manifesto on “how to turn pro”, here are thirty distinctions I’ve learned which apply to ANY Grower who is truly committed to living a life of purpose, fulfillment and ease.
- Amateurs look for hacks and shortcuts — Pros do the work.
- Amateurs speed up — Pros slow down.
- Amateurs are busy — Pros are focused.
- Amateurs sell first — Pros serve first.
- Amateurs think it’s about them — Pros know it’s never personal.
- Amateurs think life is short — Pros know life is actually really freakin’ long.
- Amateurs are reactive — Pros are responsive.
- Amateurs live with constant misunderstandings — Pros take the time to get clear.
- Amateurs don’t know what success looks like (to them) — Pros know their definition of success and aren’t afraid to change it.
- Amateurs don’t know their core life values — Pros do.
- Amateurs want to feel happy — Pros want to feel alive!
- Amateurs play to “not lose” — Pros play to win.
- Amateurs are harsh — Pros are fierce.
- Amateurs secretly enjoy being in the “Victim Mindset” — Pros are a “Hell No” to that!
- Amateurs wonder what people say about them when they leave the room — Pros know.
- Amateurs have false and limiting beliefs around money — Pros don’t.
- Amateurs are constantly searching for life balance — Pros are living an integrated life.
- Amateurs think everything matters — Pros know what few things actually do matter (for them).
- Amateurs set boundaries defensively — Pros simply honor their “operating system”.
- Amateurs think help is a four letter word — Pros actively seek opportunities to help and be helped.
- Amateurs don’t have a relationship with their “Future Self” — Pros are best friends with their “Future Self”.
- Amateurs confuse knowing with doing — Pros receive knowledge and apply it (EVERY moment of EVERY day).
- Amateurs love information — Pros love insights.
- Amateurs have intentions — Pros have commitments.
- Amateurs have expectations — Pros have agreements.
- Amateurs compare — Pros create.
- Amateurs live from probability — Pros live from possibility.
- Amateurs are focused only on the “Goal Line” — Pros are focused on both the “Goal Line” and the “Soul Line”.
- Amateurs set goals with contingencies — Pros know contingencies are just excuses and NOW is the time!
- Amateurs create from the past — Pros create from the future.
Now that you are aware of the 30 differences between an amateur and a pro, where do you see yourself?
And I’d love to know why. Get in touch with your answer.
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